A$AP Rocky's Comments About Rihanna's Wealth Offer a Different Perspective on Success, Confidence and Comparison.

It wasn’t particularly a complicated or terrible statement . In fact, the beauty was in how simple it was.

During an appearance on The Jason Lee Show, Rocky was asked about being with Rihanna, whose wealth is considerably greater than his. His response was basically: “So what?”

He said Rihanna has billions, he has millions, and her success is not his downfall. He also made it clear that he is proud of what he has achieved for himself and proud of what she has achieved too.

Honestly, more people need that kind of mindset.

Because you don't have to be dating Rihanna to know what comparison can do to your head.

It may be your friend who just bought a house.

Sometimes it's that former classmate who started a business and is already making money.

Sometimes it's somebody you started creating content with who now has 200,000 followers while your own page is still doing “loading…”

And if we're being honest, social media makes this worse.

You open Instagram and somebody is announcing a new car.

You check LinkedIn and somebody has landed another big client.

You open TikTok and someone younger than you is apparently making millions from their phone.

Before you know it, you're asking yourself, “What am I even doing?”

That's the trap.

Someone else's progress is not evidence of your failure.

Rocky's response stood out to me because he didn't seem interested in turning Rihanna's success into a competition.

She has built something impressive.

Good for her.

He has built his own career.

Good for him.

Both things can be true at the same time.

I think we sometimes forget that.

We look at another person's results and immediately use them to judge our own.

But you don't know their starting point.

You don't know who helped them.

You don't know how long they've been working.

You don't know what opportunities came their way.

And, most importantly, their journey was never supposed to be your timetable.

This matters even more when you're trying to build something online.

Maybe you've started freelancing and someone else already has 50 clients.

Maybe you're trying to grow a blog and another creator seems to be getting traffic effortlessly.

Maybe you're still figuring out what skill you can actually make money from.

That doesn't mean you're behind.

It means you're still building.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting more.

Now, I'm not saying we should all sit down and pretend we don't care about money or success.

Of course we want better lives.

Of course we want more income.

Of course seeing someone succeed can motivate us.

The problem starts when inspiration becomes self-disrespect.

There's a difference between saying:

“Wow, she is doing well. I want to learn how she did it.”

And:

“Everybody is ahead of me. Maybe I can't do this.”

The first one can push you forward.

The latter can keep you stuck.

And this is where I think Rocky's attitude is useful.

You can admire somebody else's success without making yourself smaller.

You can learn from someone who is ahead without deciding that your own journey is worthless.

You can even celebrate someone else's big win while you're still waiting for yours.

Your own progress still counts.

One thing I've been learning is that progress doesn't always look impressive from the outside.

Sometimes progress is getting your first client.

Sometimes it's finally learning a skill you've been avoiding.

Sometimes it's publishing your first article.

Sometimes it's making your first ₦10,000 online.

It may not look like Rihanna's billionaire empire or Rocky's multi-million-dollar career, but it is still movement.

And if you're building an online business from scratch, those small wins matter.

I wrote about why your first online business doesn't need to be fancy. You can read about it here. You don't need to look like somebody who has been doing this for ten years before you are allowed to call yourself a beginner who is making progress.

Start where you are.

Improve what you can.

Let other people win too.

There is enough room.

That's probably my favourite part of Rocky's response. He didn't treat Rihanna's success as something that took something away from him.

And maybe that's the mindset more of us need.

Someone else's win is not your loss.

You can clap for them and still go back to building your own thing.

One day, somebody else might be looking at what you've built and wondering how you did it.

For now, abeg, keep going.

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